Regards Gary, il admit I thought his ‘thing’ was just to be blunt and swear. But I gave him a second chance and bought his book. Now I get him, and I get his message. It is far more than just swear words and telling people to stop looking for excuses.
The problem you discuss goes past further than those who are the top of the chain, I get this kinda thing too, you probably do too. And I think a lot of it ironically relates back to Gary’s message of those who just look for the excuse giving those who stopped with excuses some shit, for doing their thing.
Like you say, The problem is certainly not Gary’s, but I don’t think this thing will ever change. If you put yourself out there, prepare to face the haters.